Ooze Sensual Radiance

Are you ready to restore the sovereignty of your body and reclaim your original sexual essence for the most blissful empowerment?

Your ready to release body shame and feel sexy in your skin.

Heal your heart break and radiate authentic joy.

Embrace your inner masculine and feminine for skilful self love.

Experience a life full of luscious love and red hot passion.

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Hello! I’m Selby

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I am so delighted to have your presence on my page!

I am a certified love, sex and relationship coach and I work with singles and couples to release shame around their bodies and sexuality so they can experience soulful connection and masterful self love.

My work is perfect if you are dating, in a long term relationship or ready to own your authentic power and the aliveness that comes from embracing all of you.

Through embracing your body you can experience this and so much more. Our bodies, our sexuality and sensuality are some of the most suppressed areas in society and usually the most suppressed area within ourselves. As a result, this work will up level every single area of your life.

So if you desire shame-free, passionate, luscious intimacy, you are in the right place!

MY APPROACH

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Using powerful somatic and holistic tools, we will work in a trauma informed way through your limiting beliefs and reconnect you to experiencing your mind, body and soul as worthy of pleasure and soul level intimacy.

After years of studying personal development and holistic tools, it was only when I started to work on my sexuality and my relationship to my body that I started to fully thrive, experience the deepest connection in my relationship and feel fully empowered in my body.

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MY JOURNEY

My journey began with shame and shyness around sexuality and my body. This shame made it incredibly hard for me to open my heart to intimacy. I saw my body and my DD breast as one huge sin and all I wanted to do was disconnect from my body to avoid my feelings, my sensuality and my aliveness for fear of being deemed emotional, slutty and someone who takes up too much space.

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The incredibly gentle and powerful practices that opened my heart and allowed me to release my conditioning are the same practices I will share with you for real and lasting healing.

Imagine how your life would change if you released your body shame and heart break and could feel radiant and alive.

Take a deep breath into your heart and know that you are so worthy of a life filled with pleasure, know that you are so worthy of a life free of shame. 

What People Are Saying?

“During my coaching with Selby I dealt with a lot of trauma I had accumulated over the years. She turn our coaching sessions into a safe and positive place where I was free to express myself and some really tough experiences without judgement. She didn’t force me into anything and instead respected my timing and allowed and encouraged me to face the things I was scared to face at my own pace and with a lot of support and kindness. She was genuinely happy with every win I was able to achieve each week and gave me tools that I could put into practice outside our coaching sessions, which really helped me when I felt anxious and scared.”-Gisela

“Being skeptical on coaching this experience changed completely my perspective. I got to go deep into the situation that I wanted to attend and got the gift of finding more surprises on the way. I found old wounds and emotions that I wasn't aware of (but where adding to the "problem" I was facing) and a way to release them. This brought me a lot of clarity in my process and powerful tools to keep on going. Selby was always so supportive and empathic. This helped me open up more and enjoy each session. Her professionalism also gave me the feeling I could trust her and what she was doing. I’m very very grateful that I got to have this experience.”-Daniela

“Ahhhh, I loved the richness of these sessions! Selby has such a loving and calming presence. With Selby’s confident guidance I felt safe and held, allowing me to fully luxuriate in the practices. During one particularly powerful breath work, I felt that I truly met my grief, and my love. This gave me access to truths that led to genuine transformation in the way that I can connect to my body, and the experience of pain and pleasure. What I also cherished was that Selby really honoured my desire for the sessions, she was able to meet me where I was, and knew intuitively how to move me through in such a profoundly supportive and tender way. I have learned so much, and I am exceptionally grateful for her expertise, grace and compassion. For anyone wishing to explore or deepen. I would highly recommend this beautiful coach.”-Aurora

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Femme Fatale Secrets

A sultry self love journey to adore your body, sink into your senses and unleash your authentic magnetic radiance.

The Femme Fatale Coach

At The Femme Fatale Coach we believe you deserve to feel safe and sexy inside your body. We are committed to providing you with the best holistic tools for your thriving wellness and intimacy, with yourself and others.

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