Ooze Sensual Radiance

Are you ready to transform your body shame and intimacy blocks to the most luxurious bliss?

Your ready to sink into your senses and feel sexy in your skin.

Unleash your authentic essence and become magnetically radiant.

Embrace your inner masculine and feminine for skilful self love.

Experience sizzling hot passion in and out of the bedroom.

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Hello! I’m Selby

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I am so delighted to have your presence on my page!

My deepest desire is for everyone to know what if feels like to come home to their bodies so they can experience thriving intimacy with themselves and others.

 I am passionate about seeing my clients embrace their bodies and harness their sexual energy to experience:

  • Masterful self love

  • Radiant sensuality

  • Joyfully taking up space

  • Attracting their hearts desires

  • Soul fulfilling connection

  • Exquisite Sex

Through embracing your body you can experience this and so much more. Our bodies, our sexuality and sensuality are some of the most suppressed areas in society and usually the most suppressed area within ourselves. As a result, this work will up level every single area of your life.

So if you desire shame-free, passionate, luscious intimacy that satisfies your soul, you are in the right place!

MY APPROACH

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Sex and intimacy are so vulnerable and beyond the individual and societal shame that stops us expressing our needs and desires with ourselves or a partner. It is a space of incredible vulnerability which is why a trauma informed space is so key on your journey. A space filled with consensual discussions, this step alone starts to develop your internal boundaries around sexuality and intimacy laying a foundation of safety that really nourishes your sexuality so that you can thrive in intimacy. 

In a gentle, compassionate, trauma informed way, we will work through your limiting beliefs and reconnect you to experiencing your mind, body and soul as worthy of pleasure and expressing your enchanting radiance.

Using somatic and embodied tools we will restore safety to connecting with your body so you can feel radiant and sexy in your skin, so you can experience the loving intimacy you crave.

TANTRA

Tantra is about so much more than sex and its ancient wisdom is now being backed by science. We will use Tantric practices that gently work with your body, mind and soul.

BREATH-WORK

We will use gentle breath work practices that allow us to make affective change that goes deeper than words all the way into your subconscious.

CONSCIOUS INTIMACY

We will bring consciousness and clarity to your habitual patterns and intimacy blocks. Working with the foundations of love safety and belonging to create an internal ecology for you to thrive. 

EMBODIMENT

You will experience the powerful transformation that occurs when you release conditioning not just from the mind but from the body. Talk therapy has so many benefits but many of my clients who have had years of talk therapy experience powerful shifts in just a few sessions. 

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My approach is rooted in the tools I learned studying the VITA Coaching Method at The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. I use coaching modalities backed by modern psychology and science to connect you to your core desires. The desire that lights you up from deep inside and motivates you to make lasting changes.

We will work powerfully with holistic tools that go deeper than talking. This allows my clients to really embrace their bodies, release intimacy blocks and radiate their unique radiance.

MY JOURNEY

My journey began with shame and shyness around sexuality and my body. 

I saw my body and my DD breast as one huge sin and all I wanted to do was disconnect from my body to avoid my feelings, my sensuality and my aliveness for fear of being deemed emotional, slutty and someone who takes up too much space.

This shame permeated deep into my self worth and my confidence.

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Underneath all the shame and suppression of my authentic self, I felt a deeper craving for intimacy but the fear of opening my heart won every single time.

On my path to healing and opening up my heart I learned that we cannot escape our pain, but we can transform through our pain.

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The incredibly gentle and powerful practices that opened my heart and allowed me to release my conditioning are the same practices I will share with you for real and lasting healing.

Imagine how your life would change if you shamelessly embraced your sensuality, your body, your sexuality?

If you could sink into your skin and fully relax, fully feel your senses and experience life as luxurious.

How would it feel in your body?

I invite you to take a deep breath.

Sink into your body, as much as you currently can.

Take another breath into your heart and know that you are so worthy of a life filled with pleasure, know that you are so worthy of a life free of shame. 

CURRENT OFFERINGS

Free Events

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Coaching Packages

These packages allow my clients to really harness the benefits of coaching by creating the mental shift for you to commit to working on your goal for a specific time. I have found coaching packages to be so transformational that all my coaching packages save you 20% vs pay as you go sessions. We will always have a taster session before you invest.

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Femme Fatale Secrets

12 weeks to adore your body, sink into your senses and unleash your authentic magnetic radiance.

Fatale Attraction

16 weeks of couples coaching to remove your intimacy blocks, become skilful lovers and unleash red hot passion.

(Closed until September 2021, click to join the wait list)

The Femme Fatale Coach

At The Femme Fatale Coach we believe you deserve to feel safe and sexy inside your body. We are committed to providing you with the best holistic tools for your thriving wellness and intimacy, with yourself and others.

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