Embrace the Lusciousness of your Body. A Path to Pleasure, Passion and Power.

Blazing Love


A transformational coaching package for women.

10 (60 min) breakthrough sessions to step into pleasure filled empowerment.

Embrace and expand your pleasure to experience blissful empowerment, red hot passion and luscious intimacy in and out of the bedroom.





Do you desire to release your shame around your sensuality, sexuality and body to open up the deep wells of pleasure inside your body?

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Maybe you’ve been desiring to unleash your feminine radiance and feel sexy and sensual in your skin?

Are you ready for sex to no longer be an area of tension in your relationship but a nourishing flame that infuses you and your partner with deep connection and passion?

If you desire to swap the stress, the disconnect and the shame for feeling sexy, empowered and blissful beyond belief.

You are absolutely in the right place❤️


Get Ready To:

Embrace your body and your pleasure so you can experience sizzling hot passion and soulful connection with your current partner or meet a partner that fulfils your desire for deep connection and passion.

Live from a place of blissful empowerment and ditch the stress and the burnout for good by being as skilled at tapping into the wisdom of your body and your pleasure as you are at using your mind.

Activate your inner enchantress for magnetising radiance and masterful self love.

My own journey to pleasure and power started with shyness and shame.

As a 15 year old with DD boobs my already shy self felt so much shame around the attention my body would get. I secretly desired to embrace my body and my radiance but the risk of being seen as a slut felt like the worse thing that could happen to this church girl. Little did I know the shame and the disconnection to my body would seep into other aspects of my life. As an adult, I fully dove into hustle culture and the disconnection from my body and my pleasure meant that I was able to work till full burnout on numerous occasion. I was master at living from my head and when dating and eventually with my beloved I struggled to open up and be present for deeply nourishing intimacy and pleasure. 

After years of studying incredible holistic tools and personal development it was only when I stared working on embracing my sexuality and my body and experiencing my sexuality as sacred and as my own, beyond what I was taught in society that I felt truly empowered in my femininity and free to be magnetic and radiant because I felt how much it supported me.  I’m no longer dependent on achieving a goal to experience pleasure nor do I rely or put pressure on my beloved to be the one to fill me with pleasure. I now work towards my goals from the nourishing support of connecting to my body and pleasure for a life filled with  pleasure, empowerment and passion.

What do my Clients have to say?

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“I’m so grateful for this opportunity to be coached by Selby ❤️

It is amazing how much love , compassion and kindness we’ve received in each session!

Both of us me and my partner were able to gain so much clarity and transform our old hurts and resentment into understanding, acceptance and compassion. Before working with Selby I wasn’t feeling very safe to communicate in my relationship, very often will be triggered into freeze and generally felt very helpless. During our coaching sessions I felt safe, seen, heard and validated in my experience, and it was very healing. Selby is an amazing space holder and has very grounded calming presence, I love her gentle breath-work guidance and centring meditations we did in every session. Thank you ❤️.”

-Olga

“Working as a couple with Selby has been the most enlightening and transformative experience that I can honestly say has enriched mine and my husband’s relationship beyond belief. We have moved through some major blocks together and now find ourselves experiencing passion, connection and intimacy both physically and emotionally in a way that we previously dreamt of but often found difficult to access. Not only has the process transformed our relationship it has also supported us both in our individual person development.

We have both had major shifts in awareness around our own patterns and needs and have learnt how we can support ourselves and each other to feel safe, happy and fulfilled. The work is deep but it is also gentle and fun! We would laugh and feel close and connected through out the sessions even when challenging pieces arose. I will be honest we were both nervous going into the process but that quickly melted away and was replaced with excitement and love. Selby is an amazing coach who has made us both feel safe and supported throughout the journey. It has been such a gift to work together. I have already recommended her to many of my friends.”

— Charlotte

“Being skeptical on coaching this experience changed completely my perspective. I got to go deep into the situation that I wanted to attend and got the gift of finding more surprises on the way. I found old wounds and emotions that I wasn't aware of (but where adding to the "problem" I was facing) and a way to release them. This brought me a lot of clarity in my process and powerful tools to keep on going. Selby was always so supportive and empathic. This helped me open up more and enjoy each session. Her professionalism also gave me the feeling I could trust her and what she was doing. I’m very very grateful that I got to have this experience.”

-Daniela

“I am a person who would rather box their emotions up and push them deep down, rather than deal with them. I rarely open to people, it was just easier that way. I also deal with anxiety. My sessions with Selby were what I didn’t know I needed. Every session, Selby created such a safe space and platform for me to be able to feel comfortable opening up. She is excellent at listening and is very engaging. Don’t be afraid to jump and dive deep into whatever you got going ... or don’t realize you have going on, Selby will be there through it all and accept and help coach you through anything that comes up. One thing I loved about these session were that it helped me focus on my relationship with myself and my feelings, we are not two separate entities but they are an honorable part of me. Selby. My sincerest thank you for the time you’ve spent with me and the work you do. Truly a incredible experience to work with you.”

— Patty

“Ahhhh, I loved the richness of these sessions! Selby has such a loving and calming presence. With Selby’s confident guidance I felt safe and held, allowing me to fully luxuriate in the practices. During one particularly powerful breath work, I felt that I truly met my grief, and my love. This gave me access to truths that led to genuine transformation in the way that I can connect to my body, and the experience of pain and pleasure. What I also cherished was that Selby really honoured my desire for the sessions, she was able to meet me where I was, and knew intuitively how to move me through in such a profoundly supportive and tender way. I have learned so much, and I am exceptionally grateful for her expertise, grace and compassion. For anyone wishing to explore or deepen. I would highly recommend this beautiful coach.”

— Aurora

“During my coaching with Selby I dealt with a lot of trauma I had accumulated over the years. She turn our coaching sessions into a safe and positive place where I was free to express myself and some really tough experiences without judgement. She didn’t force me into anything and instead respected my timing and allowed and encouraged me to face the things I was scared to face at my own pace and with a lot of support and kindness. She was genuinely happy with every win I was able to achieve each week and gave me tools that I could put into practice outside our coaching sessions, which really helped me when I felt anxious and scared.”

— Gisela

A Taste Of Our Time Together


My work is rooted in powerful somatic tools that work with the body mind connection to release numbness, disconnect and longheld tension from your body. This allows for trauma and tension that has been stored in the body to release and leave you feeling the change in your body for good. Many of my clients that have been to talk therapy for years experience powerful shifts in the first few sessions. Not because talk therapy isn't amazing (it definitely is) but because a lot of trauma is stored in the body, somatic healing allows for highly effective healing. This work will liberate the pleasure and radiance inside of you and restore your body into feeling safe and sensual. Feel safe to live life from pleasure and experience the power that comes from living life connected to your body so you can make decisions not just from your head but also from the wisdom and support of your body. I also combine modern coaching modalities rooted in science and modern psychology with holistic sacred sexuality tools to awaken your body, mind and soul to feeling worthy to experience deeply connected bliss in and out of the bedroom.

This work is centred around connecting you to your body and by the end of our time together you will feel confident in being able to guide yourself back to bliss long after our sessions.


Some of the areas we will cover include :

 

Journey Into The Self

You will create a thriving internal ecology of love safety and belonging to allow you to always return back to a loving connection with your body.

 

Restoring the heart

We will do deep work around past heartbreaks and childhood wounding so that you can connect deeply to your beloved.

Emotional Empowerment

You will learn tools to liberate your emotions so they don’t remain in your body as stored tension but they become fuel to access your full expression in the bedroom.

 

Experiencing your worthiness of pleasure.

You will expand your orgasmic capacity by learning how to de-armour your vagina and your cervix to release numbness and tension  for Clitoral, G-spot, Cervical AND Whole Body Orgasms! 

Restoring innocence and joy to your body.

You will be able to access pleasure and sensuality for nervous system nourishment so you can stay feeling sexy and sensual long after our sessions-so key for managing the micro stresses that build up in daily life. 

 

Living life feeling safe, sexy and luxuriously blissful.

You will relaese shame and guilt from your body mind and soul to reclaim your sexual vibrancy, body adoration and authentic magnetism.

 

Over our time together you will also have my full support outside of our sessions ❤.

Each breakthrough sessions will laser focus on your limiting beliefs for high quality, effective healing and permanent transformation.

You will experience what many of my clients have experienced, transformation is possible quicker than you ever imagined 💋

Investment


This powerful investment will infuse rapturous bliss into your life so you can have experiences you will remember forever.

The best part is you will have the tools so you can forever experience sizzling hot passion and sultry self love💋

1 payment

£525


Book a free 45 min Intro Call and experience a taste of the transformation possible.

I also have a very fair refund policy that supports the both of us throughout the duration of the coaching.

  I understand how scary it can feel to do this kind of work and the taster session is a great way to know if inside you have a deeper yes! Or if now isn’t the right time which is absolutely more than ok. Whether we continue working together or not you will receive a clear map of what you would need going forward. Fill out the form and if it’s a good fit I’ll email my Calendly for our first meeting.